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Can't blame you one little bit. I had a friend who was a manager at some company and they went on one of those workplace bonding things. They were asked if there was something they could do that no one else knew about them, and he said he could do a flip on the trampoline. What they didn't know was that this portly little man once tried out for the Canadian National team--who even knew they had that? Moral of the story: Always do the unexpected. That's why we have scars! (And I've got my fir share!) No broken bones, but I am missing a fingertip. Never let fear and common sense stop you.

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Hey Ben, thanks for the comment. A Canadian National trampoline team?! Definitely didn’t know those existed. And doing the unexpected is how we learn and grow! Couldn’t agree more!

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Jun 28, 2023Liked by Winston Malone

I was sorry to hear about your accident, I felt your pain in conversation. It’s amazing when your heart and inner instincts come to light in a situation. Next time please listen to that inner voice, it’s how God speaks to you. I hope you recover quickly by my visit in late August for the Utah vs Fl Gator game. I do love the fact you put the accident into a story with a great explanation. You’re in my prayers. Love Dad

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Thank you! I can’t wait for your visit. Love you

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Message received, Winston. Heal well. 💆🏻‍♂️

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Thank you, Adrian!

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Ohhh, so sorry to hear this Winston! Boy can I relate to how fast it happens - though I am feeling grateful I didn't break anything. Yesterday I got my foot caught in a hole in the blacktop and took quite a fall. It happened SO FAST. I have a nice black eye and a bunch of bruises to show for it (but it seems like nothing worse for which I am grateful). It definitely wasn't on my summer plans. After being sick and then having sciatica last summer I was hoping for a few pain free months.

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Oh my gosh, Karen! I’m sorry that happened to you. I hope you heal quickly and get those pain free months back. Thanks for the healing support. It sure does mean a lot. I continue to enjoy your wonderful photography!

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Jun 28, 2023Liked by Winston Malone

Aw man, I'm sorry to hear this happened. However, I'm also glad that it wasn't worse, like you hitting your head or breaking your neck. I was at one of these trampoline parks a few years ago with those same grippy socks, and just like you, I felt my age when I was jumping around in them. Accidents can definitely force you to think differently from how you normally do. Hang in there!

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Thank you so much, Camacho! It’s definitely a life lesson, and I’m growing more from the entire experience. Sometimes life just shakes you awake and you’re forced to pay attention. Miss you. Hope you’re doing well.

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Oh no! I'm so sorry to hear about your ankle. I've been there and it sucks. But I'm glad you're taking some much-needed time to rest and recharge. Be well :-)

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Thank you, Jacquie. Your comment means a lot. I’m recharging in all the best ways and I’m hopeful that I can get back into the swing of things soon. Hope you’re resting up as well.

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That's a bummer, Winston. I sympathize with your predicament. Tendonitis derailed a lot of plans I had for the summer. I hope you heal up fast and can get back on your feet as good as new.

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Hey John, I was just thinking about you. How are you doing lately? Have you felt any better? Thank you for the kind words and sympathy. I’m optimistic that my ankle will be better in no time. I’m already putting weight on it, as per the doctor, and I’m much happier. I wasn’t fairing well on just one leg.

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I'm doing better than I was earlier in the month. My wrist still has bad days, but it has healed enough for me to resume some normal activities. I was able to write a new short story for my Substack on Wednesday and I finished part of Episode 4 of Snow Dragon, my upcoming serial. I can go long stretches without my splint now, so hopefully it will be fully gone by next week.

I'm happy to hear you can put weight on your leg. That's half the battle won in the rehab process.

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That’s good to hear, John. Sending healing vibes your way in the hopes that you’ll be fully back soon.

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I completely sympathize, or rather commiserate. Lost half of the big toe of my left foot this past weekend. At present, it is perfect motorcycle weather here in southern Idaho. All the rivers are also running high. Nights are still cool, making it perfect camping weather. Yet here I sit, popping pain pills and reading substack.

At least it's an opportunity to get some writing done.

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OMG! I’m so sorry to hear that. Hope you heal soon and can get back out in nature. I, too, was hopeful that I could get more writing done, but we’ll see. I’m working on a weekly serial which will probably take up most of my writing time. I think the biggest thing I want to do is read more, especially on Substack. I’ve been seeing more awesome stories and writers popping up, and I think it’s time for me to check them out! Thanks for the comment. I sort of feel your pain. Stay strong!

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Intuition can be a great guide, but it can be tricky recognizing it over simple fear of the unknown. We naturally gravitate to what’s known, what’s safe, but without going beyond that comfort zone we become stagnant. Yes, there are risks in venturing out into the uncomfortable, but that’s also how you grow.

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Absolutely! I recognize that even with the enduring pain and the inconvenience, it’s a chance to grow and learn more about the beauty of life. At the very least, I’ve noticed how conveniently everything is set up for people without disabilities. The amount of stairs I’ve had to avoid or struggle up is eye opening. And doors that don’t open on their own are now my arch nemesis. I think a better analysis on my part is to follow that intuition into to the unknown and then pause to reassess, and if you begin to feel actual fear (which I did, but omitted in the post), to maybe take a moment to think of the possible reasons or ramifications of the next actions (which I forced out of my mind in favor of pride and ego). It’s definitely interesting analyzing it after the fact. Thanks for the comment, Elly!

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Ouch. Bummer. It happens. I hope it heals well.

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Thanks, Michael. It sure does. I’m feeling optimistic about the healing process. Hope you’re doing well, too.

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Ugh, sorry to hear that, Winston. I was in my early 40s when I stepped off our deck and rolled my ankle. It was not in some wild youthful abandonment of intuition, so at least you have an interesting story.

Rest up, relax and I hope you feel better soon. It could be an indication slowing down and disconnecting is the best for now.

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Thank you, Brian! I hope I can get some good healing in. The outpouring of support alone on here was more than I expected and I can’t thank you enough for taking the time to share the sentiment. Looking forward to reading some more of your work and catching up soon!

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Jun 28, 2023Liked by Winston Malone

I’m a strong believer in intuition, and a lot of times I also went against it and ended up hurt. It’s wise to heed the warning signs and listen to that inner voice and always remember you are the smartest person you’ll ever know. Get well 🦶 soon my friend.

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Thank you, Sandra! I appreciate your supportive comments and will heed that advice as dutifully as I can.

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Sending good wishes your way.

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Thank you so much, Priya! It means a lot.

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Jun 28, 2023Liked by Winston Malone

Thanks for the insight and sharing what you've learned. Following my intuition is hard for me since I often get bogged down by facts, but I can see how it's helpful.

Get well soon!

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Thank you for stopping by to comment, Myinc. Facts are important, too. The more information the better, for the most part. For example, if I had known that the foam pit was supposed to have foam in it, I probably would have made a different decision. :0

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deletedJun 28, 2023Liked by Winston Malone
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Yeah….I think my pride was hurt more as they wheeled me out of the facility in an old, tattered computer chair. Lol

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